Red Flags For Melania And Donald Trump's Marriage From Our Relationship Experts

Melania and Donald Trump's marriage has been in the spotlight for decades, as the two tied the knot in 2005 after meeting in 1998, and it's been a bumpy road for them, especially during Donald's presidency. All eyes were on their relationship, interpreting and dissecting every public appearance, and over the years, many red flags have popped up. This is precisely why we spoke exclusively to Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, and Dr. Wendy Welsh, America's go-to expert on relationships and acclaimed television journalist, to delve deeper into what might be wrong in Melania and Donald's relationship.

"There has been a myriad of speculation. Many thought [Melania] would leave him when he left office, but she is still there. Although she is not quite beside him at his arrests, during the trial, or even on the campaign trail," Trombetti tells us. "They might have some sort of arrangement, whether it's spoken or unspoken, but that still leaves her humiliated when all of this is so public."

"We are in 2024, 26 years after Melania and Donald allegedly first met, 19 years after they wed," Dr. Welsh adds. "[Melania] is an enigma. Her appearances are scant, her fashion loud, her voice soft, and the power she may wield over the man whose few remaining secrets she holds could be enormous." And while the two seem to have quite a few problems in their relationship, Trombetti and Dr. Welsh point out some of the most significant and potentially marriage-breaking red flags they've noticed through Melania and Donald's public appearances and insider intel.

One of the most glaring red flags in Melania and Donald Trump's relationship is the Stormy Daniels scandal. The allegations of an affair between Donald and adult entertainer Daniels, coupled with the alleged "hush money" payments made to Daniels, created a storm of controversy during his 2016 presidential campaign. "The fact that he is on trial for paying a porn star hush money is a huge red flag. When he was having his fling with Stormy Daniels, Melania was pregnant with their son," Susan Trombetti tells Glam exclusively. "I am sure Melania isn't thrilled about this, but she didn't leave him over it." To make matters worse, Donald has been indicted for allegedly falsifying business records to cover up the scandal. He now faces criminal prosecution, making him the first former United States president to stand trial in a criminal court.

"There's her husband, withstanding a humiliating courtroom trial about hush money and sex with a pornography actress, and he's doing it alone. Melania has not accompanied her husband to any of his court appearances (and there have been many)," Dr. Wendy Welsh tells us. "A source told People Magazine that she has said that 'this fourth indictment is another problem for her husband,' and not a problem 'for her.'" Not standing by her husband throughout these legal troubles raises serious questions about the state of their relationship and her willingness to continue supporting him despite the allegations and public scrutiny. According to People's source, Melania's aware of how it looks but "hates all of the legal problems" and "leads her own life."

Recent reports of Melania and Donald Trump negotiating a new postnuptial agreement have raised eyebrows, suggesting potential trouble in their relationship. According to a Page Six source, Melania wanted to increase their son's trust as well as her own money and property. "If this is true, it could be a bit of a red flag that Donald Trump gave her more so she will stay with him for some time for appearances," Susan Trombetti notes exclusively to Glam.

"Melania recently renegotiated her prenup and converted it to what is reported to be a 'very comfortable' postnuptial agreement that will provide a more solid future for her and their son, Baron, should his parents part ways," adds Dr. Wendy Welsh. The renegotiation of their financial agreement could suggest there's plenty of underlying tension or dissatisfaction within the marriage, prompting concerns about its stability and future. This, combined with the little support we see Melania giving Donald during his trial, certainly isn't a good look for the two.

In "Fire and Fury: Inside the Trump White House," journalist Michael Wolff wrote that Donald and Melania had separate bedrooms during his presidency, something the White House hadn't witnessed since the Kennedys. Reports have suggested that Melania and Donald Trump have been sleeping in separate bedrooms for quite some time, and our experts add that this could indicate potential trouble in their relationship.

"Donald and Melania don't sleep in the same bed. He likes to watch the morning news very early, and this is said to be the reason why," Susan Trombetti tells Glam exclusively. "Their bedrooms have long been disconnected. From Trump Tower to the White House to Mar-a-Lago, reports are that this couple's separate nocturnal quarters are less about snoring and far more about avoidance," adds Dr. Wendy Welsh. The fact that they maintain separate bedrooms, even while spending time together in public, raises questions about the state of their relationship and their intimacy. Even though sleep divorce can help some relationships, it's hard to believe that separate bedrooms are helping Melania and Donald's relationship when combined with the other red flags noticeable in their marriage.

Donald Trump's continued reputation as a "womanizer" could spell trouble for his relationship with Melania. After all, the media personality turned politician has been linked to several other women during his marriage. "Donald is a womanizer and doesn't appear to have changed in any way," Susan Trombetti tells Glam exclusively. "Also, she is more traditional, so even with some sort of arrangement, this has got to be problematic when it's humiliating you as well. Where's the discretion?"

Despite Melania's more traditional values, Donald's alleged womanizing behavior could remain a significant source of tension and potential conflict in their relationship. His reported infidelity not only tarnishes the public image of their marriage but also poses a threat to the trust and intimacy between them. Melania's discomfort with his reputation is undoubtedly there, and it raises questions about their relationship's sustainability. Plus, the public scrutiny surrounding Donald's alleged affairs only adds to the strain on their relationship.

On April 1, Donald Trump's net worth plummeted by $1 billion in just one day, and there's no denying that a financial loss of this proportion would strain the stability of his marriage. "Money troubles that he is having and his inability to do business to make more money since he is tied up in court," Susant Trombetti tells Glam in an exclusive chat. "This arrangement has to be in part over money, so if he doesn't have it — I think it could spell trouble in paradise. Men trade money for youth and beauty. Donald needs money to keep this arrangement. As a matchmaker, I can tell you women aren't looking for financially unstable men," she adds.

If Donald's money issues persist, they could further exacerbate the existing challenges in their marriage. For Melania, financial security and stability may be crucial factors in maintaining her marriage — after all, the fact that she has negotiated a new postnuptial agreement speaks volumes. The couple's financial situation seems closely tied to their overall stability, and any downturn in their finances could have serious repercussions for their relationship.

The Trumps' rare public appearances together since they left the White House in January 2021 have raised eyebrows and sparked speculation about the state of their relationship. "The #whereismelania hashtag continued into 2024 as she mourned the loss of her mother in January and excused herself from public events for months, not even showing up at his Super Tuesday election Victory Speech. Really. Where has she been in 2024?" Dr. Welsh exclusively explains to Glam. 

While Melania has since reappeared at Donald Trump's side and made a rare appearance in early April at a fundraiser for Donald's 2024 presidential campaign, it's clear that she avoids public appearances as much as possible. The couple's infrequent public appearances together suggest a lack of closeness and unity, further fueling speculation about the state of their relationship. As Melania continues to keep a low profile, the public can't help but wonder if she feels comfortable in her marriage or if she's maintaining it solely for the financial benefits.

Despite the sunny Florida weather, Melania Trump wore a black Michael Kors pantsuit with a black leather belt for her first appearance in public in quite some time. The backdrop? A mid-April day at Mar-a-Lago amid the chaos of Donald Trump's jury being confirmed in New York City. "Stop and think about this for a moment. It is spring. It is Palm Beach. It is Florida, the sunshine state, home of white pants in January.... And Melania strategically shows up in a black pantsuit," Dr. Wendy Welsh shares exclusively with Glam. "Black. Black. Black. The color of grieving. Is she mourning the demise of her marriage?"

While Melania's words were directed to the audience, her outfit seemed to be what everyone focused on. The choice of black has further fueled rumors about the state of her marriage to Donald Trump, and only time will tell if these red flags are as concerning as they seem.